The short answer
Compare the change in take-home pay, not gross salary alone. Then add pension contributions, bonuses, health cover, insurance, leave, commuting, childcare, tax credits and future earning potential. A pay cut can still be a sound decision, but the full cost should be visible.
A lower salary may buy something valuable: time, health, flexibility, a new career path or work that fits a different stage of life. That value belongs in the decision. So do the financial consequences.
Compare the complete package
Run a trial month if possible: transfer the expected reduction into savings and see how the household operates. It will not recreate every effect, but it can reveal pressure points before the decision becomes permanent.